“It was amazing! Thank you so much for opening my eyes to this amazing understanding of birth. This will for ever change me and my views of natural child birth.”
– Jazz Carlson. RN, Minneapolis, MN


I believe birth is powerful and so are you!

I am here to guide you on the most amazing journey of your life – the birth of your baby.
Are you afraid?  Worried birth will be too Painful? Worried you won’t be able to birth with dignity? I hear you.  You have come to the right place.
I am here to share with you the Best-Kept Secrets that will transform you and your birth experience.
I know birth holds the keys to an amazing opportunity to move from Pain to Power and discover strengths, wisdom and Yes, pleasure in your body and in the experience of bringing new life into the world.
Join me for my weekly dose of pleasure, information and inspiration
Watch our documentaries, read our books, or take my online childbirth class and I will doula you to unlock your pleasure in birth and beyond!





Hello, I’m Debra Pascali-Bonaro, I am a Lamaze Childbirth Educator, a DONA International Doula Trainer, a sought after inspirational Speaker, Director of the Award Winning Documentary Orgasmic Birth, Co-Author of the book Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth Experience, and founder of Pain to Power Online Childbirth Class – and most importantly a passionate mother and doula.
I have personally given birth three times and attended and supported hundreds of women, men and partners through the process of pregnancy, birth and postpartum.  I have taught in over 30 countries and Chair of The International MotherBaby Childbirth Initiative to improve care for MotherBaby’s of the world.

Join me and learn more about our pleasurable birth movement!


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“Watch this film and get in on the worlds best-kept secret: labor and birth can be pleasurable-even ecstatic. Better yet, pleasurable birth enhances the health of both mother and baby and creates a positive foundation for a lifetime.”

-Christiane Northrup, MD FACOG


I am passionate about transforming birth.
I believe birth is sexual and by ignoring the sensuality, love and sacredness of birth we have made birth more challenging and more painful and fearful.
I have worked for years to create a movie, write a book and develop resources so that you can have the tools you need to reclaim your birth experience, finding comfort, pleasure and awakening your inner wisdom as you birth yourself , your baby and your family with respect, dignity and love.

My Birth Story

You deserve to give birth with dignity, love and pleasure!

Learn how to move from Pain to Power, subscribe now to receive my weekly “Keys to Unlock Your Pleasure” & Be Inspired by our Award-Winning Documentary. I am excited to journey with you as you create the birth of your dreams.

With love and pleasure,

Debra Pascali-Bonaro