your guide to using the

Firmly rooted in the belief that birth can be pleasureable and powerful, Orgasmic Birth® and Dame have come together to create the first ever vibrator for birth.

Meet the FIN PleasureVibe, a wearable finger vibrator that can be used in pregnancy, labor, birth, and postpartum for pleasure, oxytocin enhancement, pain reduction, and healing.

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benefits of using a vibrator in labor
pain relief

Vibrator use can help alleviate the intensity of contractions and provide a counterpoint to labor pains. The pleasurable sensations can act as a natural pain reliever.

relaxation

The stimulation can help relax the body and reduce stress, which is beneficial during labor.

Oxytocin Release

Sexual stimulation, including vibrator use, triggers the release of oxytocin, a hormone that plays a crucial role in labor progression.

Cervical Ripening

The prostaglandins released during sexual arousal can help soften and thin the cervix, potentially aiding in labor progression.

emotional well-being

Some women report feeling more empowered and having a more positive birthing experience when incorporating sexual elements into their labor.

distraction

Using a vibrator can serve as a distraction technique, helping women focus on pleasurable sensations rather than pain.

natural labor induction

Orgasms and sexual stimulation can sometimes help initiate labor in full-term pregnancies.

privacy signaling

Using a vibrator can signal to others that you want privacy, creating a more intimate environment and reducing interruptions, which aids in relaxation and focus during labor.

When to use the vibrator in labor
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before labor

Prepare your body for labor by stimulating the release of oxytocin, a hormone crucial for contractions. Some women report success in using vibrators to naturally induce labor, soften the cervix, or manage late-pregnancy discomfort.

early labor

During early labor, a vibrator might provide comfort and potentially help progress labor by stimulating oxytocin release.

active labor - during surges (contractions)

Clitoral stimulation during contractions may help with pain relief, even without reaching orgasm.

active labor - between surges (contractions)

.Using a vibrator may help you relax and find comfort during the resting periods.

transition

Near the end of labor, when contractions are most intense, clitoral stimulation might help manage discomfort.

your pleasure booster for birth

meet fin pleasurevibe

A science-backed, waterproof finger vibe specifically designed for childbirth. This intuitive device aids in pain reduction and enhances the natural hormones of labor, empowering those with vulvas to find comfort and pleasure during birth.

  • Ergonomic design for easy use during contractions
  • Waterproof for use in birthing pools or showers
  • Promotes the release of endorphins and oxytocin
  • Helps reframe birth as an empowering, potentially orgasmic experience

Tap into your innate power and change the narrative around childbirth.

Experience the transformative power of pleasure during one of life’s most significant moments.

the vibrator can be used in many ways during birth
clitoris and vulva

Direct clitoral stimulation can help with pain relief and oxytocin release.

Lower abdomen

Gentle vibration may provide comfort during contractions.

Lower back

Applying the vibrator with massage to the lower back can help manage back labor pain.

Inner thighs

This sensitive area may respond well to vibration and gentle massage for relaxation.

nipple stimulation

Light vibration here may help stimulate contractions.

In a 2024 survey, 33% of respondents stated that they would like to have the privacy to masturbate during labor. 

vibrations in birth
[Using a vibrator was a] lifesaver in the beginnings of active labor. Once contractions became consuming we switched to other methods (hip squeezing, water, etc) but omg I recommend it to every expecting mother I speak to. *also, for those who might feel a bit shy about it, it’s important to note that it didn’t feel inherently “sexual”. It felt like a pain management tool that allowed me to relax and lean into the process with more ease.
- @tusindnej
Using a vibrator and having my husband help with some clitoral stimulation got me through the worst of a very long induction. I could not orgasm, but the stimulation was very helpful for relaxation and worked as a distraction from thinking too much about impending contractions.
- @all.kate.saw
I used it with both of my births when contractions got harder and it did wonders to ease the pain, the sensations became sooo much more manageable. 😍 I should add that I had two homebirths so I had a lot of privacy and felt comfortable to do so.
- @feelingmoms
benefits of using a vibrator postpartum
improved pelvic health

Vibrators can stimulate blood flow to the pelvic region, aiding in healing and restoring sensitivity. They can help strengthen pelvic floor muscles, potentially reducing urinary incontinence and improving vaginal tone and elasticity. These combined benefits can lead to enhanced overall pelvic health and improved sexual sensation.

Enhanced sexual well-being
Vibrators enable new mothers to safely rediscover pleasure and reconnect with their bodies at their own pace. They offer non-invasive stimulation, which can be particularly beneficial for those experiencing discomfort. Regular use has been shown to improve overall sexual function, including desire, arousal, orgasm, and satisfaction. Additionally, the intense stimulation can promote natural lubrication, contributing to a more comfortable and enjoyable sexual experience during the postpartum period.
Improved emotional and mental well-being

The use of vibrators during postpartum recovery can significantly contribute to a new mother’s emotional and mental health. By helping rebuild sexual confidence and body awareness, providing stress relief through orgasms, and fostering a sense of emotional empowerment through self-care, vibrators can play a crucial role in supporting overall psychological wellness during this transitional period.

lactation massage

The use of vibrators during breastfeeding can significantly contribute to a nursing mother’s physical and emotional well-being. By enhancing milk flow and let-down, alleviating engorgement and blocked ducts, and providing soothing relief for sore breasts, vibrators can play a crucial role in supporting overall breastfeeding success and comfort. This tool empowers mothers by improving feeding efficiency and potentially boosting milk supply, fostering a more positive nursing experience.

 
 
ResourceS
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pleasurable birth essentials - childbirth prep

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Ongoing research

Orgasmic Birth® is committed to conducting surveys and research with the guidance of our Advisory Committee to compile data about self pleasure and vibrator use in pregnancy, labor, and postpartum. If you’ve purchased our vibrator, please be sure to register your purchase so that we can follow up for feedback after you give birth.

We are grateful to our advisory committee for their commitment to pleasurable birth research and study. Our committee members are:

  • Sarah Buckley, MB, ChB, Dip obst, PH.D. candidate
  • Naolí Vinaver, CPM
  • Stuart J. Fischbein, MD
  • Elisabeth Bolaza, PH.D., MPH
  • Robin Lim, CPM
  • Jasmine Perez, CPM
  • Sokhna Heathyre Mabin, IBCLC
  • Chloe Campbell, CM, LM, CLC
  • Amy Warren, PH.D.
  • Dr. Arantzazu Cioce PT, DPT, CAPP-OB
  • Samara Ferrara, Midwife
  • Debra Pascali-Bonaro, LCCE, BDT/PDT(DONA)