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    Create Your Personalized Birth Preferences

      Preparing for birth is a transformative journey filled with anticipation, excitement, and love. Embrace each step of the process, knowing that you are preparing yourself for a beautiful and pleasurable birth experience.

      Language matters! I use the term "birth preferences' instead of "birth plan" when referring to this document that clarifies your wishes for your birth. We all wish that we could plan our birth but nature may have other ideas. I feel it’s better to think of creating preferences, visions or birth wishes, using language that honors flexibility. Whether you're aiming for a traditional birth or exploring the concept of Orgasmic Birth, clarity in your preferences is key!

      Debra Pascali-Bonaro, founder and creatrix of orgasmic birth

      Why Birth Preferences Matter

      It's vital to understand, create and communicate your preferences

      Empowerment
      Taking an active role in your birth plan empowers you to make informed decisions.

      Clarity

      Clearly outlining your desires helps your birth team understand your wishes.

      Prevention of Trauma

      By discussing and understanding your options, you can reduce the likelihood of experiencing birth trauma.

      Facilitation of Joy
      Positive preparation sets the stage for a joyful, ecstatic birth experience.

      Once I took the time to truly understand all of the options I had for birth - from interventions, to comfort, to privacy and care providers - I realized that I could truly shape the experience I wanted to have. Things didn't go exactly as planned - but because I knew what and how I wanted to be treated, and feel, I was able to feel empowered. It's so important to understand the options you'll be presented with at birth - and to know the options that most providers will never offer. Those things like dimmed lights and privacy, eating and drinking, and the ability to move around, take a walk, and not be hooked up to machines or monitors constantly. Even vaginal exams are optional! No one tells you that!

      Elizabeth

      #orgasmicbirthplan

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      Preparing for birth is a transformative journey filled with anticipation, excitement, and love.

      Embrace each step of the process, knowing that you are preparing yourself for a beautiful and pleasurable birth experience.

        "Thank you for providing such a thorough list of incredible options to have the most pleasurable birth possible. I had no idea there were so many options for comfort during birth and I found this to be a great jumping off point to learn more about options, interventions, and ways to prepare for birth. I feel empowered to have a pleasurable birth after watching working through these preferences.

        Emily