Sex After Baby

Do you miss the intimacy you had before baby?

Do you struggle to feel sexy and to connect with your partner?

Being a parent is not the opposite of being a lover. 

You can be both.

Like most women, you may be going through a period of reckoning with your new, post-baby body.

We’re already held to impossible beauty standards and often fall victim to the chase for the “perfect body”, so it’s no surprise that so many of us struggle to embrace our post-baby bodies.

Add to those insecurities the uncertainty around what sex will be like after giving birth…

How long will we have to wait?

Will it feel different for my partner?

Will it hurt? 

Will I even be able to relax enough to enjoy it? 

It’s no wonder that so many couples feel a disconnect after baby.

Imagine instead, that you feel confident in your new body

Confident that you’ll know when the time is right and your body is ready

Confident that you and your partner will be able to communicate in a way that makes you both feel safe, desired, and sexy

Imagine that you don’t have to get back to your pre-baby bod, hide your insecurities, or be afraid of how things might be or feel different now that you’ve given birth

Can you imagine it?

Well, you know what they say… if you can imagine it, you can achieve it!

“This is way beyond the bedroom, folks!

I feel BEAUTIFUL … I feel more alive and joyful, and more clear on how to dissolve blocks to my own pleasure, heal emotional wounds around sexuality, and gift myself greater respect, beauty, and joy in place of these fading obstacles. 

I deeply appreciate the attentiveness and fullness of presence that Debra brings as she guides us into authentic & fulfilling connection with our sexuality, ourselves, and our partners. She is lighting the way to healing for mothers and sexuality, and for partners craving intimate connection that INTEGRATES their identities as new parents. 

I am so honored to have been part of the Sex After Baby class experience! Debra is an exquisite doula and pleasure guide for us all. She truly honors each one of us where we are, and holds our stories and personal experiences in reverence and love. I feel so inspired from our time together and in knowing that these women are my companions on the journey into sacred sexuality and fully embodying our radiant pleasurable selves.

This experience has been so expansive and life-changing for me, and I am thrilled by the increasing depths of my abilities to give and receive pleasure in ALL areas of my life.” – Nena, Sex After Baby Graduate

Introducing the…

Sex After Baby Signature Class

Led by the author, Debra Pascali-Bonaro, and based on the #1 Amazon New Release, “The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love & Intimacy”

How you connect with and express your sexuality after baby matters – for you, your partner, and your happiness as a parent. 

The Sex After Baby program follows along with the 9 PLEASURES laid out within the Amazon Best-selling book, “The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy” by writer/director and childbirth educator & doula trainer, Debra Pascali-Bonaro.

Our signature program consists of 10 90-minute live group sessions over 9 weeks. During our group sessions, participants will dive into one of the PLEASURES steps with additional information, resources, and deep discussion. 

Special guest teachers will join us to share their wisdom and guide us in going deeper into each “pleasures” step.

The Winter 2020 classes will be held on Mondays at 8am PDT/11am EDT, beginning November 16th.

The Sex After Baby course changed my whole outlook on sexuality and even my relationship with my husband!!

VictoriaDebra was so great at facilitating, educating, and holding space for our group to process big emotions, birth trauma, and past views on our sexuality. Because of her and the other amazing women I was with, I was able to deconstruct my past beliefs about my sexuality, and my body. It was so healing and transformative! 

Through working in the Sex After Baby group I was introduced to so many new concepts and other amazing sexual healers and that jump started my journey into healing even further, and that is what ultimately changed my marriage. 

I am thriving, I am feeling sexy, I have fallen madly in love with my husband all over again, and I am moving forward in my own dreams and desires with confidence because of the Sex After Baby course.

Don’t hesitate, this course is invaluable and has the potential to rewrite your entire course in life. I cannot imagine a world where I didn’t take this course, it was that amazing! Invest in yourself, mama, because you deserve this, and you deserve to feel like the sexy and confident goddess you are!” – Victoria

This class is for you if you:

What's Included

10 LIVE 90-Minute Group Calls Over 9 Weeks

Private Call Recordings of all Sessions

Weekly Custom PDF Journal Worksheets

A copy of “The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love & Intimacy”

Guest Expert Sessions

A Supportive Sisterhood for Life

Meet Your Guide

Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world renowned childbirth educator, doula trainer, global inspiration speaker, and author of the #1 Amazon New Release, “The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love & Intimacy”.

Debra offers her lifetime of wisdom working with new parents to guide you with her simple actionable steps that will turn your struggles into opportunities for more love, fun, and SEX! Yes, even after having a baby.

After this class you will:

There is a feeling of really being held in this circle of women, this is a beautiful strength of the course.

RaquelIt was a really beautiful experience. Debra has a way of imparting information that makes it seem like a party. She gives information in a way that is safe, nonjudgemental, and makes you feel seen.

You can let go of the shame – shame is the sexuality and sensuality killer. I now make daily pleasure a more integral part of who I am.” – Raquel

Meet Our Guest Experts

Janet RaftisJanet Raftis

Prioritizing Your Divine Feminine Self Following Childbirth

Janet Raftis has been playing with energy her entire life, but in 2004 she began to do so in a serious way. She began with the study of Reiki and quickly became a Master. She has since learned Pranic Healing and Matrix Energetics, and she is able to psychically understand what Spirit wishes to reveal to her clients. As a result, she has created a type of healing that is led by her intuition and personalized to each individual’s unique needs. 

Janet works closely with the Divine Feminine, serving as a channel for the healing and teachings of the goddess, and she has become an activator for others, helping them to access their healing and intuitive gifts through their connection to Spirit and the Divine Feminine in a way that feels safe and secure. She has a thriving healing practice, teaches intuitive and spiritual development, leads divine feminine spiritual circles, and hosts retreats around the world.

Sokhna Heathyre Mabin

Sokhna Heathyre Mabin

Womb Wisdom of Yoni Steaming

Sokhna Heathyre Mabin is a mother of 2 beautiful beings ~ one born via her belly and the other naturally at home. She has been a student and teacher of Yoga for 35 years and is also an herbalist, sound therapist, lactation counselor, Care Coordinator with Healthy Start US Presidential Initiative for maternal health.

Sokhna is an advanced doula who has trained with DONA, Ancient Song Doulas, and The Traditional Postpartum Healing Lodge. She is the creator of MamaSutra Loving Arts which canopies her herbal medicine practices in The Tantric Tavern. She has led 2 community doula trainings and is currently overseeing the development of a hospital doula program for women of color in Kalamazoo, MI.

Sokhna is the creator of “The 13 Moonth Svadhyaya”, a year-long self-study through the Art of Yoga, and co-creator of “Embodied Anatomy: Kundalini Yoga and Women’s Anatomy” and the phenomenal online “10 Day Womb Cleanse Revival.” She is a Sacred Woman, A Wild Woman Facilitator, and a Trauma Sensitive Yoga Facilitator. Her artistries as vocalist & dancer have taken her around the world, as has her passion for seeing birth and mothering made sacred again through the connected matrix of the Womb Wide Web.

Tilly Storm

Tilly Storm

Sexy Mama Embodiment – jade eggs for igniting desire and loving your mom bod!

If lack of confidence, low libido, or guilt and shame around your sexuality are the cause of your bedroom woes, (the hot, wild sex you never have any more, or the transition into motherhood that sucked your libido dry), you need Tilly. She’s a holistic sex coach for women that lack desire and want to feel sexy again.

As a certified sex coach, Tantra, and jade egg teacher, Tilly uses deep transformational tools and techniques based in modern coaching modalities, and ancient tantric wisdom and Taoist practices to help women like you get your desire back and have the most mind blowing sex of your life.

Danielle SavoryDanielle Savory

Becoming Sensual – Learning to Tap into Your Sexual Pleasure

Danielle Savory is a master coach helping women become turned on and have better & more fulfilling sex lives. A host of the popular podcast, “It’s My Pleasure,” Danielle’s work is at the intersection of neuroscience, psychology and sex and focuses on empowering women through better understanding their minds and being able to tap into their desires and pleasure. She’s been featured in a number of podcasts and is known for taking a smart, humorous and compassionate approach to an often delicate subject. Danielle lives in Portland, OR with her two kids, husband, and adorable puppy.

PLUS Get Access to These Amazing Bonuses

Orgasmic Birth Virtual Conference (Value $500)

Get access to 23 video interviews with the world’s leading birth experts. By understanding the physiology and hormones of childbirth, and the similarities they have to our sensuality and sexuality, you will have the keys to unlock pleasure and make childbirth safer and easier! 

Hear from thought leaders like:

  • Eve Agee, PhD, international bestselling author of The Uterine Health Companion
  • Latham Thomas, Founder of Mama Glow and Co-founder of the Mama Glow Film Festival
  • Penny Simkin, a Physical Therapist who has specialized in childbirth education and labor support since 1968 
  • Roanna Rosewood, Executive Action Chair of Human Rights in Childbirth
  • Lonnie Morris, Founder and Director of The Childbirth Center, PA
  • Aviva Romm, MD, Creator of WomanWise
  • And more!

Pleasurable Birth Essentials (Value $825)

We know giving birth during this time is full of challenges. With Pleasurable Birth Essentials, you will be prepared for all birth has to offer.

You will receive our easy to enjoy content through videos, workbooks, weekly emails and personal support.

You will be positively prepared for birth with the information, reassurance and facts you need to understand all your options and dive deep into the ohhhhh so good tips that transform pain to pleasure!

Here’s what’s included:

  • Access to “Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret” documentary
  • E-Book copy of our book, Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth Experience
  • Exclusive PDF Workbooks by Debra & Birth & Family experts (Spinning Babies, Dr. Sarah Buckley, Carrie Contey, PhD & more!)
  • Exclusive Videos including Debra and a carefully curated selection of our favorite birth videos brought to you by the world’s most trusted resource
  • 12 Months of unlimited Doula support from the Pain to Power Team
  • Lifetime access to all of these valuable resources

Participation is limited to a small group of people that want to invest in a happier, more satisfying relationship with themselves and their partner.

What will it cost you not to invest in your relationship?

Join for more fun, sex, and love!

Contact us if you would like to have a call with Debra to make sure this opportunity is for you! 

A Personal Message from Debra...

Years ago, I gave birth to my first son and was so in love. I assumed my husband understood that our lack of time together would change in the future and one day we would have more time for great sex again. 

But instead of talking about it, a gap grew between us. We didn’t prioritize our time together, intimacy and love, and sadly, our relationship ended in divorce. 

I had no idea how many others had similar feelings. I wish more people had told me and provided my husband and me opportunities to talk more about sexuality and parenthood in a way that felt safe.

Now, after working as a doula, doula trainer, filmmaker and author for over 30 years I have heard too many people with similar stories to mine and data confirms a higher divorce rate the first years after having a baby. 

But I’ve also picked up so many incredible tips for connection and love from new parents around the world that have increased intimacy and enhanced their sexuality. 

I’ve also had my own successful, sexy, and wonderful relationship with my second husband for over 20 years now. Which is why I wrote my latest book, “The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy” for you! I want you to have all the information and support I was missing.

I am here to help you navigate the many aspects of giving birth and becoming a parent that impact how you feel about yourself, your body and your sexuality.  

I want you to have the tools I was missing that no one told me about. 

I want you to have more love, and intimacy as you enjoy parenthood and your relationship. 

You deserve to make this the best, most memorable time of your and your family’s life in every way!

I’ve been honored to support hundreds of women in positively preparing for birth and a sexy, vibrant, loving life after having your baby.

That’s what I want for you, too.

Life has changed, you have changed, and so has your body.

You might not know it, but you are primed for the best sex of your life — you just need a clear roadmap to support you!


Debra is committed to creating equity in her work as a doula, doula trainer and educator, and actively learning, engaging and listening to be Anti-Racist in her work and life.

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