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Pleasurable Birth Essentials
Transform pain to power is a groundbreaking and comprehensive program designed to revolutionize the childbirth experience by helping expectant parents embrace birth as a safe, empowering, and deeply pleasurable journey. Rooted in the latest scientific research and enriched with practical exercises, inspiring real-life birth stories, and expert guidance, this course equips individuals and couples with the knowledge and tools to tap into their inner strength, overcome fear, and shift their mindset from anticipating pain to welcoming power and pleasure.
By fostering confidence, relaxation, and connection throughout pregnancy and labor, Pleasurable Birth Essentials transforms the traditional narrative around childbirth, encouraging parents to reclaim their bodies and birth experiences as sources of joy, empowerment, and profound transformation. This program is ideal for anyone seeking to approach birth with positivity, resilience, and a sense of sacred celebration.
“In a world so full of fearful and often conflicting information, the course felt like a cozy blanket to wrap into and soak up the peace and knowingness that deeper wisdom is at work when it comes to this magical transformation we go through as women and as families. An abundance of topics was presented in a truly holistic way that sparked our curiosity and excitement. The course was by far the best investment we made in our preparation of the birth of our first baby, as it left us not only informed but inspired, empowered and open to all possibilities.”
– Asta
One on One
Personalized Coaching
Personalized, one-on-one sessions with Debra Pascali-Bonaro, an internationally recognized educator in childbirth and maternity care. Designed for expectant parents and birth professionals alike, these sessions focus on creating a positive and pleasurable birth experience by offering tailored guidance, answering individual questions, and helping clients understand their choices to develop a birth plan that suits their unique needs.
Each coaching session is recorded, allowing clients to revisit the advice and inspiration whenever needed, ensuring ongoing support as they prepare confidently for birth.
“Debra helped me navigate through the lengthy medical choices, jargon, and thoughts that brought up all my fear, and we turned it into excitement and magic. We’re not designed to do it alone, and with Debra’s presence, I was so prepped, ready, and grounded in who I am. I had a very difficult choice to make (baby’s head was not going the ‘right way’) and Debra helped me move through it MIRACULOUSLY so I birthed naturally and with a breech orgasmic birth! Our orgasmic breech birth was the best thing in the world, a tribute to this work, and to life. She is AMAZING, she’s the birth coach of your dreams. Her approach is real, based on science, and works if you want an orgasmic birth like I had!”
-Dr. Amanda Noelle
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Firmly rooted in the belief that birth can be pleasurable and powerful, Orgasmic Birth and Dame have come together to create the first ever vibrator for birth.
Meet the Fin PleasureVibe, a wearable finger vibrator that can be used in pregnancy, labor, birth, and postpartum for pleasure, oxytocin enhancement, pain reduction, and healing.
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Sex after Baby
Book and Live Training
Debra’s latest book is dedicated to help new parents reignite passion and deepen their connection after welcoming a baby. This guide offers actionable steps for bridging the gap between parenting and romance, empowering couples and individuals to rediscover confidence and embrace both their roles as parents and lovers.
With practical advice and supportive insights, the guide encourages parents to transform the challenges of new parenthood into opportunities for greater love, fun, and intimacy.
In our signature 9-week class, Debra offers her lifetime of wisdom working with new parents to guide you with her simple actionable steps that will turn your struggles into opportunities for more love, fun, and sex!
Join Debra and an intimate sisterhood for this journey into your sexuality! Learn how to heal your body and any trauma you may have experienced prior to or during birth that is blocking your ability to connect with your partner.
“The warmest, juiciest, most inviting deep dive into the power of reclaiming our sexuality and pleasure after having a baby! Debra Pascali-Bonaro makes us feel that not only is it ok to be a sexual being after birth, it is vital AND will make us a better parent and partner. We finally have a book that recognizes the importance of sex in the context of childbirth and motherhood and gives us the tips, tools, and stories we need to hear to reconnect with our sensuality. Debra gives birthing people permission to take care of themselves in the deepest and best way possible while removing the shame and stigma so many of us feel around sex. She generously shares her own personal experiences along with those of others in a warm, inviting, open and powerful discussion about sexual vitality and experiences that people rarely talk about in the context of becoming a parent.”
-Jada
“There is a feeling of really being held in this circle of women, this is a beautiful strength of the course. It was a really beautiful experience. Debra has a way of imparting information that makes it seem like a party. She gives information in a way that is safe, nonjudgmental, and makes you feel seen. You can let go of the shame – shame is the sexuality and sensuality killer. I now make daily pleasure a more integral part of who I am.”
– Raquel
meet your teacher
DEBRA PASCALI-BONARO, LCCE, BDT/PDT(DONA)
Debra Pascali-Bonaro is a world-renowned inspirational speaker, podcaster, filmmaker, doula trainer, childbirth educator, and author. Debra’s podcast, Orgasmic Birth heals barriers and opens the door to share secrets to more love and intimacy in birth and parenting. She brings together her passion for pleasure in every aspect of life with her Jersey-Girl attitude of talking about what no one is talking about! Debra is a mother, grandmother and featured expert in parenting journals and media around the world.
Debra is also Co-Chair of the International Childbirth Initiative and Chair of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Initiative both of which promote safe, respectful maternity care. She is a Lamaze International childbirth educator, birth and postpartum doula trainer with DONA International, Director of the award-winning documentary Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret and co-writer of “Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth”, Author of The Ultimate Guide To Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy and the Founder & President of the revolutionary online childbirth class Pleasurable Birth Essentials which prepares expectant mothers, fathers, and partners to be positively prepared for birth and focuses on the intimate and sacred nature of birth.
Debra’s passion comes from her over 30 years of working with women, men, midwives, doulas, physicians and nurses in over 40 countries bringing comfort, love, and pleasure to birth and life! Debra has been featured in parenting journals and media around the world.
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“It’s every woman’s human right to have a pleasurable birth.”
-Debra
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“Five stars to Debra Pascali Bonaro for comprehensive and dynamic conversations that support safe pregnancy, childbirth and body wisdom!”
-D.
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“Debra’s compassionate and empowering approach to exploring pregnancy, birth and parenting is inspiring. Great work!
-SamBGuia
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“Debra has so much valuable info to share for mothers-to-be and anyone who assists in the birthing process. It is so inspiring to hear the birth stories from women and to hear from the experts. I’m so thankful she started this podcast. What an amazing resource.”
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