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    become a recognized

    Orgasmic Birth​ Practitioner

    through our live training

    Our world is changing.

    As a birth practitioner, you see this every day.

     

    We are experiencing a global shift away from the over-medicalization of birth. With that shift, the demand for highly-trained natural birth practitioners is growing rapidly.


    Women are no longer accepting birth as a “condition that must be treated”.


    They seek a more gentle, natural — and yes, orgasmic! — experience.

    THAT'S WHY WE'VE CREATED THE

    ORGASMIC BIRTH PRACTITIONER TRAINING PROGRAM!

    Early enrollment is open!
      Why the Orgasmic Birth® Practitioner Program?

       

      We know that trauma in birth has life-long effects on both mother and baby. We also know that there is another way… 

      For more than 30 years, Debra has traveled the world and been present for thousands of births, gaining international recognition for her expertise in childbirth. From hospitals to out in nature, beautiful and orgasmic to painful and tragic, she has seen it all.

       

      She watched as the over-medicalization of hospital births became the norm and women too often become just another patient, and she has also been witness to the ways that this has negatively impacted so many families, and ultimately, our entire world. The unfortunate reality is the inequities in healthcare have had a deep, lasting impact.

       

      But there is good news. Women are awakening to the need to return home to themselves and their innate ability to do that which is most natural — give birth — without unnecessary medical intervention. It takes an educated, compassionate team to support mama and baby in having the best possible birth experience.

       

      The Orgasmic Birth Practitioner Program is a specialized advanced course experienced advanced doulas, nurses, and midwives can obtain CEU credits (continuing education credits). We approach childbirth through the framework of pleasure and sensuality, offering a nuanced and relevant practice for improving negative birth experiences and outcomes. 

      To be an Orgasmic Birth® Practitioner is to:​

      Remove the shame and stigma associated with birth as a pleasurable experience.

      Call forth the divine feminine power that has been shunned away.

      Bring healing to past trauma and honor the power birth has to heal.

      Give voice to women who have been silenced.

      Advocate for and bring forth change, removing the inequities that exist in the medical field when it comes to birth and postpartum. 

      Be a leader in the return to the way birth is meant to be by equipping your clients with pleasure practices and tools to overcome fear. 

      Feel confident sharing how sexual healing, openness, and processing of barriers will lead to more pleasurable birth, postpartum and overall sexual health. 

      Become part of a supportive community of birth keepers from around the globe.

      Here’s what’s included in the Orgasmic Birth® Practitioner Training Program

      Four 90-Minute Live Sessions with Debra

      Four 60-Minute Live Sessions with Top Leaders in Birth & Sexuality

      Access to the Orgasmic Birth® Virtual Conference with 24+ expert interviews

      Digital copy of Debra’s book, “The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love & Intimacy”

      Access to 10 + pre-recorded Guest Expert Sessions immediately

      Lifetime Access to our Private WhatsApp Group for ongoing mentorship & collaboration with our global community

      Eligible to receive 6 Continuing Education Units with live attendance at all eligible sessions. 

      Access to the award-winning film, Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret

      Two Teach Back sessions to practice skills and learn different ways of sharing materials from fellow Practitioners

      Opportunity to become an accredited Orgasmic Birth® Practitioner after qualifying attendance & skills verification

      Orgasmic Birth Practitioner Program

      $1,398
      • Full access to our LIVE Program beginning December 1st
      • 10 LIVE Sessions with Debra and rotating guest experts
      • Access to past live sessions immediately
      • Lifetime access to our Private WhatsApp
      • Lifetime access to all course materials
      • Discounts on future retreats and events
      • Become a recognized Orgasmic Birth Practitioner
      • 3 Month Payment plan available
      what our trainees have said about the program

      By participating in this program, you can be a part of the shift back to a more natural, gentle birth experience for mothers and babies all around the world.

      “It was an honor to learn from Debra Pascali-Bonaro and be among the first graduates of her Orgasmic Birth Practioner Program. A well-laid-out structure that gives clarity on all the aspects of the Orgasmic Birth, the meetings with speakers, and scientific articles covering the anatomy and physiology of birth in connection with human sexuality are among the program's features I appreciated the most. However, my biggest surprise was discovering how much I could learn from the alumni community Debra built along the way. Knowledge exchange and deep discussions on taboo topics in the safe international circle of birth practitioners with a variety of cultural backgrounds and professional experiences, as well as their feedback and amazing support as we work on our diverse paths in sharing Orgasmic Birth with the world, all of it felt like a high-value bonus to me I deeply grateful for.”
      Ekaterina Baranova
      "As a midwife, I know first hand how promoting oxytocin production during labour and birth is a gamechanger. Learning about so many different ways to incorporate this in my practice was extremely beneficial to me, especially because I realised I was already doing some of it instinctually. Now I'm more confident in what I speak about and do with the people in my care and I love giving them extra resources to empower them to have the best birth experience they can. I am more confident in using holistic ways of enhancing oxytocin and pleasure in pregnancy care and birth care. It's a brilliant programme that enhances our skills as birth workers."
      Barbara Montani
      “This is a great tool for your clients but also a great time to learn more about yourself and what you've been hiding from or afraid to explore. Debra has created such a wonderful program to share with so many birthing people and practitioners! If you're someone who is more modest, you don't have to fear the word "orgasmic". It's just about feeling good, open to pleasure in all ways and feeling safe in your space. I'm so happy I took the course and stepped out of my comfort zone. It's helping me professional and in my personal life.”
      Kerry Burke, Owner Peace Birth and Wellness
      "Taking the Orgasmic Birth Practitioner (OBP) Training helped me reboot my perspective after a particularly challenging quarter of births and difficulty for me and my clients in birth. I was feeling disillusioned and disappointed in myself and my knowledge after most births. I put my OBP learned mindset to task with my first physician birther. they understood what was needed intellectually to help her oxytocin receptors really take hold and made it happen for her birth and labor. Win! Win!"
      Jaye McClure- Advanced Practice Doula-New York City
      "This class feels essential to invite more pleasure into birth, postpartum, and life as a whole. Theres a lot of juicy information to blossom your understanding of birth, your practice and to invite the holistic view of humanity which includes and celebrates the sexual experience."
      Shireen Olyaie
      "Debra's Orgasmic Birthing Program provides information that is valuable to all expectant couples. Adopting and providing this knowledge with couples in pregnancy, birthing, and postnatally provides parents with the confidence and skills to labor and birth the way nature intended, minimizing any unnecessary interventions. This informations is life changing for the the mother's, partners, and especially the Infant's physical and emotional impact of birthing. The results speak for themselves, brighter, happier, loving connected parents and babies."
      Linda Hayes-Cooper
      "I've enjoyed this course so much. I feel that in the Netherlands, even though we are usually very open about sex, there is a long way to go and I am honoured that I get to be a part of it. Ive learned so much from Debra, my peers and all the amazing guest teachers, I can't begin to describe how wonderful it was."
      @douladorene
      This program has reinvigorated my passion for finding pleasure, fun and joy in birth. I hope more folks have the opportunity to experience this and know what is possible! This class has helped me find a community that is really about looking at birth in a different way and I am grateful to have a space to share ideas and learn from each other.
      Estefany A.
      "This perspective on birth is so important to get out in the world. If you’re even the slightest curious to how pleasure is a key factor in birth, you will be amazed of the richness and the jewels this program can give you. If orgasmic birth is new to you, this might very well change your life and your practice. This knowledge can change birth and thanks to it we can surely reduce interventions and trauma."
      Lovisa Dahl
      “Orgasmic Birth Practitioner training has been so supportive in my evolution as a birth worker and human. It’s embodied, informative and supportive. I feel more confident in myself as a woman, my life path and my career.”
      Tessa Bate Catto @birthartandbeyond
      "This course completely altered how I work with my clients. This course added to my knowledge of female physiology and what women are capable of in the right circumstances. I learned how to set the scene and talk about sexuality during prenatal sessions in a way that empowers my clients (even those who are most shy!) I look forward to continuing to expand how I run my prenatal sessions and support my clients in labor."
      Genevieve @brightdaydoula
      “This program will shed a magical light on the real possibilities that are held within birth. Birth is not something that happens to you, it is something you get to be a part of and facilitate. This program teaches you how.”
      Cate Moll

      Meet your Teacher

      Debra Pascali-Bonaro

      For the past 30 years, I have traveled the world as a childbirth educator, doula, and doula instructor, gathering invaluable knowledge, tools, and inspiration. Now I want to share with you all the essential knowledge that I’ve picked up along the way – my secrets, my tools, and the inspiration for my work.

      My journey began with my own empowering birth experience, which led me to question and challenge the over-medicalization of childbirth. As one of the first DONA-approved birth and postpartum doula trainers, I have dedicated my career to promoting respectful, empowering, and pleasurable birth experiences. 

      As chair of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Organization and co-chair of the International Childbirth Initiative, I advocate for safe, respectful maternity care. I directed  the award-winning documentary “Orgasmic Birth®” in 2008 and authored The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Baby: Secrets to Love and Intimacy in 2020. 

      To share insights from my fieldwork, I developed the Orgasmic Birth® Practitioner Program, which aims to equip compassionate birth workers with the skills to support women in having dignified, meaningful birth experiences. Join me on this sacred journey to transform birth and maternity care! 

      With sincere love and pleasure, 

      Schedule

      December 1, 2025

      Welcome & Defining Orgasmic Birth® with Debra

      December 8, 2025

      Birth Ambiance: Creating Safe, Sexy and Pleasurable Space with Debra

      December 15, 2025

      Special Guest!

      December 29, 2025

      Sexuality, the Role of the Clitoris, Comfort & Pleasure with Debra

      January 5, 2026

      Special Guest, Tilly Storm

      January 12, 2026

      Special Guest, Dr. Elisabeth Bolaza

      January 19, 2026

      Special Guest, Britt Fohrman

      January 26, 2026

      Sex after Baby: 9 Pleasures with Debra

      February 2, 2026

      Teachback Session #1

      February 9, 2026

      Teachback Session #2

      guest teachers

      There is so much more you can offer your clients when you go beyond what traditional doula/birth practitioner training programs offer. At Orgasmic Birth®, we want to make sure that you are equipped to support your clients in this unique way. This is why the Orgasmic Birth® Practitioner Program includes live 60-90 minute learning sessions with a top leader in birth and sexuality.

      Chantal Traub

      Chantal Traub is a board-certified health and wellness coach, seasoned NYC-based birth doula, and certified menopause coach. For over 20 years, she has guided women through major life transitions—from childbirth through perimenopause.

      Early in her career, Chantal identified a critical gap in childbirth education: preparation for the pivotal pushing stage of labor. To address this, she developed her signature Pushing Power method, equipping expectant mothers with the tools and confidence to navigate birth with greater ease and reduced trauma. Through her classes, coaching, and doula services, she has helped thousands of women embrace a more informed and empowered birthing experience.

      A global speaker and educator, Chantal partners with the Polyvagal Institute, Global Pelvic Health Alliance, and My Pelvic Floor Muscles to teach on birth, menopause, and the nervous system. She is a two-time published co-author: her book, The Pelvic Floor: Everything You Needed to Know Sooner, became an Amazon bestseller, and she contributed a chapter on creating safety in birth to Somatic-Oriented Therapies: Embodiment, Trauma, and Polyvagal Perspectives. In her private coaching practice, she supports women navigating birth through menopause.

      Chantal lives in Brooklyn, New York, with her husband and their two teenagers. Outside of work, she enjoys hiking, cold-water dips, and creating meaningful travel experiences with family and friends.

      www.chantaltraub.com

      Tilly Storm

      If lack of confidence, low libido, or guilt and shame around your sexuality are the cause of your bedroom woes, (the hot, wild sex you never have any more, or the transition into motherhood or menopause that sucked your libido dry), you need Tilly. She’s a somatic sex and intimacy coach for women who lack desire or pleasure in the bedroom and beyond.

      Tilly is also the host of The Multiorgasmic Millionaire Podcast. She’s been captivating audiences since 2017 with her unique blend of wisdom, Southern sass, and unapologetic authenticity. With over 400,000 devoted listeners and counting, she was voted one of the top 20 sex coaches worldwide by The Coach Foundation.

      With a background in Taoism and Tantra, Tilly brings a modern twist to unlocking pleasure and passion in the bedroom. Using somatic healing, psychotherapy, and proven coaching techniques, she helps ambitious women reignite their desire and experience more pleasure in the bedroom and beyond.

      www.tillystorm.com

      Britt Fohrman

      As an embodiment teacher, coach, birth educator, and photographer for over two decades, Britt Fohrman helps people cultivate embodiment and expand pleasure through coaching, yoga, meditation, breathwork, somatic practice, and mindfulness.

      Her practice is based on over 2 decades of experience in holding space for women standing at the threshold of life’s most profound transitions: becoming a mother, healing from illness, injury or loss, stepping into sexual power and opening to new beginnings.

      Britt holds a loving space for you to feel deeper into your body, allowing whatever is needed to be felt to come through, liberating you into living a life led by your desires, inner knowing and authentic values.

      https://www.brittfohrman.com

      Elisabeth Bolaza, Ph.D., MPH

      Dr. Elisabeth Bolaza is an interdisciplinary reproductive anthropologist and maternal health researcher with a background in public health and biological sciences. She brings radical, anti-oppressive, feminist perspectives to her work to advance maternal health and reproductive justice.

      Dr. Bolaza’s recent research has focused on birth justice as the principal investigator of the Birth
      Pleasure Study, the first rigorous mixed methods study of positive and pleasurable birth experiences to date. Her debut book on this work, Pleasure in Birth: Pushing Reproductive Justice Forward is projected for release in 2025 with Routledge. She holds a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality with a focus in Policy Leadership at the California Institute of Integral Studies, a Masters in Public Health in Health & Social Behavior and Global Health from UC Berkeley, and a bachelors in Biology from UCLA. She is the founder and lead of SORADA, a new research consulting firm focused on transforming maternal, sexual, and reproductive health through research, rigor, and praxis.

      Elisabeth is the mother of two young daughters (the first born in hospital the second at home), a survivor of obstetric violence, an avid ally to midwives, birthworkers, and co-dreamer with magic-makers of all kinds, based in Oakland, California.

      https://elisabethbolaza.com

      When you register for the program, you will also have access to previous guest sessions by:

      • Ibu Robin Lim 
      • Alexandra Fine, DAME
      • Dr. Jenny Martin
      • Rachel Gross
      • Margaret Jowitt
      • Gil Hadley
      • Dr. Danielle Harel
      • Tilly Storm
      • Suzannah Weiss
      • Sheila Kamara Hay
      • Dr. Sarah Buckley
      • Shawnee Benton Gibson
      • Elisabeth Bolaza
      • Dr. Nan Wise
      • Tammy Ryan 

      and more!

      these sessions cover topics like:

      • Yoni Owner’s Manual
      • Business doing pleasure
      • Psychedelic Cervix
      • Anatomy of Arousal
      • Role of the Clitoris
      • Anatomy of the Clitoris
      • The Role of Sexual Empowerment in Women’s Empowerment
      • How to expand your Orgasmic Capacity for Birthgasms
      • Peripartum Sexuality: Discovering a Whole New Body
      • Body, Bliss and Ecstatic Birth
      • The Hormonal Physiology of Birth and Sex
      • Womb Wisdom and Birth
      • Polyvagal Theory Applied to Birth Physiology
      • Why Pleasure Matters
      • When Survivors Give Birth
      "The Orgasmic Birth Practitioner Program increased my confidence so much in my ability to effectively link our sexuality and birth in ways that make sense to the average person who would never think of putting those 2 together, helping people to open up to the possibility of pleasurable experiences during birth from the get-go! The community formed during the cohort was so fabulous and was an international melting post of birth keepers who get it and the discussions we had were so meaningful! Being a part of that community moving forward is such a blessing!! "
      Dr. Zazu Cioce, DPT, Founder of Phoenix PT, Pelvic Physical Therapist & Birth Worker
      “Debra teaches from the heart, sharing the science and wisdom she has learned as an international birth worker. She’s on a mission to give birth back to women and their families through her innovative course.”
      Julie Bonapace, M.Ed. author of The Bonapace Method, Trusting Birth
      “With great love, science, and experience, Debra jumps inside the most challenging parenting problems and presents easily workable solutions. Yes! You can not only have a great sex life, but a better sex life than ever before, and still be a wonderful parent!”
      Regena Thomashauer, Founder and CEO of Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts Author of the New York Times bestseller, "Pussy: A Reclamation"
      “Debra’s life work is to reframe today’s widespread belief that birth is frightening, dangerous, and painful. In everything she says and does, Debra models the joy, pleasure and empowerment that is available in birth. Let her show you how to prepare yourselves for the rewards of giving birth.”
      Penny Simkin, PT, Author, Doula, Childbirth Educator, Birth Counselor
      What our Alumni are saying...
      The Orgasmic Birth Practitioner Program increased my confidence so much in my ability to effectively link our sexuality and birth in ways that make sense to the average person who would never think of putting those 2 together, helping people to open up to the possibility of pleasurable experiences during birth from the get-go!”-
      -Dr. Zazu Cioce
      DPT, Founder of Phoenix PT, Pelvic Physical Therapist & Birth Worker
      “This program isn’t just about techniques—it’s about embracing birth as a whole journey. It’s about finding power, joy, and intimacy in the experience, and feeling confident in your ability to create a birth experience that is entirely your own.”
      -Adriana Molina Cruz
      “The live sessions are empowering and eye opening and the online content is simply invaluable. You will go through a wide array of emotions as you traverse this course but will end feeling empowered and ready to transform birth on earth!”
      -JP
      “I really recommend the Orgasmic Birth Practitioner Program because it not just reframes everything you knew about birth but everything you knew about yourself.”
      -Tina
      @moderngoddesscards
      “Orgasmic Birth Practitioner is a transformational program that offers a warmth and support of the community and an amazing vault of wisdom and knowledge. Every single lesson was deeply inspiring, and brought so much change to my personal life and work.”
      -Antea Marinovic
      Holistic Birth Coach & Dancing for Birth Instructor

      Early enrollment is open!

      Pay in full

      $ 1,398 One-time fee
      • Best pricing
      • Early access to online materials
      • Immediate access to Private Whatsapp

      3 Monthly Payments

      $ 466 3-easy payments
      • 3 easy automatic payments
      • Immediate access to online materials​
      • Immediate access to Private Whatsapp

      Becoming an A Recognized Orgasmic Birth Practitioner

      As a member of the Advanced Orgasmic Birth Practitioner Program, you are invited to become a Recognized Orgasmic Birth Practitioner.

      To receive this acknowledgment, you need to:

      • Attend 80% of Live Sessions: Participate in our sessions, contributing to and honoring the collective learning journey.
      • Teach Back Session: Present a 10-minute teach-back session demonstrating how you will incorporate Orgasmic Birth into your practice.
      • Provide Documentation: Submit proof of your training as a birth worker, doula, nurse, midwife, educator, pelvic floor physical therapist, psychologist, sexuality educator, or any other relevant certification.

      Once you complete a core number of our calls and demonstrate your desire and ability to hold space for Orgasmic Birth in your practice, you will be acknowledged as a Recognized Orgasmic Birth Practitioner.

      Benefits of Becoming a Recognized Orgasmic Birth Practitioner

      As a Recognized Orgasmic Birth® Practitioner, you will enjoy a range of exclusive benefits designed to enhance your practice and professional development:

      1. Website Listing and Referrals:

        • Your name and practice will be listed on the Orgasmic Birth® website.
        • We will provide referrals to inquiries about Orgasmic Birth® educators and doulas, connecting you with potential clients seeking your expertise.
      2. Member-Only Discounts:

        • Gain access to use our films, retreats, and other resources at exclusive member-only discounts.
        • Enhance your practice with high-quality materials and educational opportunities at reduced rates.
      3. Private Community:

        • Join a private Global community of like-minded practitioners.
        • Benefit from ongoing support, shared learning, and collaboration with peers who share your commitment to Orgasmic Birth®.
      4. Direct Collaboration with Debra:

        • Enjoy the ongoing opportunity to work directly with Debra Pascali-Bonaro, a renowned expert in the field.
        • Receive personalized guidance, mentorship, and insights to further your professional growth.
      5. Representation at Events and Media:

        • Gain the ability to represent Orgasmic Birth® at various events and in media appearances.
        • Elevate your profile and contribute to spreading awareness about Orgasmic Birth through public engagements and media opportunities.

      These benefits are designed to support your journey as an Orgasmic Birth® Practitioner, providing you with the tools, connections, and recognition needed to thrive as together we transform childbirth. 

      Renewal Requirements:

      • Annual report
      • Participation in annual calls 

      FAQs

      December 1, 2025

      Our platform, Thinkific can be used on any platform

      You must have certification or affiliation as a doula, childbirth educator, or midwife from a national or internationally recognized organization.

      Most sessions occur at 12 PM ET on Mondays with and occasional time shift for experts. All calls will be recorded. 

      You’ll have access perpetually

      • Our program include a private whatsapp with Debra and the group, as well as live calls. Debra is available for questions via email

      We will refund your fee if you attend the first two sessions live and feel that this program is not a good fit. 

      We offer scholarships for those that identify as BIPOC and have a financial need

      • First, you must have certification or affiliation  as a doula, childbirth educator, or midwife from a national or internationally recognized organization.
      • You must attend at least 8 live calls with Debra and provide a teach back session.
      • Completion of annual report

      We will provide your information to those that reach out for referrals and include you information on our Orgasmic Birth Website.

      Scholarships

      In childbirth, systemic racism is the root cause of disparities leading to higher maternal mortality rates for Black, Indigenous, and People of Color (BIPOC). We believe doulas help to create a more equitable, respectful, maternity care system.

      We want to support and amplify BIPOC voices and support every person to have a safe, satisfying, and pleasurable birth and ensuring doulas can access continuing education and training is an essential step.

      We are offering a number of BIPOC Scholarships to doulas at 50% rate.

      Application Materials

      Please submit a 1 minute video or letter addressing the questions below:

      • Tell us a little about yourself
      • Do you identify as BIPOC?
      • Why would you like to be a part of our Orgasmic Birth Practitioner community and become a practitioner with us?

      Our scholarships are reserved for BIPOC individuals with financial need. If you are not a BIPOC, we have payment plans available.

      Submit your entry and/or questions to: debra@orgasmicbirth.com

      Diversity, Inclusion and Equitable Care

      At Orgasmic Birth our mission is to provide information, education, and support for all birthing people. We are dedicated to equitable care, anti-racism, and anti-oppression and we actively work for birth justice.  We advocate for every person’s right to respectful care, to understand all options, and participate in informed decision-making.

      We also understand that many people are survivors of sexual or emotional abuse and that birth as a part of our sexuality is a time to facilitate healing and reducing/removing shame. We celebrate diversity and honor each person’s culture, religion, and traditions.

      Through understanding our past, learning, healing and expanding our vision, we believe every person has the human right to a safe, satisfying, pleasurable/orgasmic birth and the right to parent with love. 

      Early enrollment is open!

      Pay in full

      $ 1398 One-time fee
      • Best pricing
      • Early access to online materials
      • Immediate access to Private Whatsapp

      3 Monthly Payments

      $ 466 3-easy payments
      • 3 easy automatic payments
      • Immediate access to online materials​
      • Immediate access to Private Whatsapp

      Terms & Conditions

      If you attend the first two live calls and feel that this course is not a good fit, we will provide you with a full refund.  When participation is canceled all rights to use Orgasmic Birth (™) on your website, in your materials and in social media as an Orgasmic Birth Practitioner is also terminated.

      We have alumni from around the world.
      Will you join our global community?