Safe, sensual
Close your eyes. Imagine your birth
Your body – strong and sensual.
Your breath – deep and rhythmic.
Your baby, moving with you – not against you.
You’re not just surviving labor.
You’re thriving in it – awake, alive, and in awe of your own power.
What if you could turn fear into excitement, pain into power, and doubt into deep trust in your body’s wisdom?
What if birth could be more than a medical event?
What if it could be a rite of passage – ecstatic, embodied, and deeply pleasurable?
You’re not dreaming. You’re ready.
we believe
pleasure isn't
a luxury
it's your birthright
Pleasurable Birth Essentials is your toolkit for a birth that’s as safe as it is sensual, as evidence-based as it is soulful.
This is not your average childbirth class.
This is a revolution—a journey designed for mamas who trust their bodies and their minds.
Here, pleasure isn’t an afterthought – it’s foundational.
Evidence isn’t dry – it’s empowering.
Community isn’t optional – it’s essential.
You deserve a birth that honors your strength, your sensuality, and your sovereignty.
introducing
pleasurable birth essentials
childbirth education
Learn the essentials for a healthy labor and birth with our 5 module birth course which includes the role of pleasure, birth hormones, and comfort measures so that you can confidently create your unique birth plan!
Bonuses include Debra’s Film, Orgasmic Birth: The Best Kept Secret, her book of the same name, and our brand new Pleasurable Birth Options Mini Course.
what's inside your
your pleasurable birth toolkit
Everything you need to feel turned on by your birth, not terrified by it:
5 Sensual Modules
Pregnancy, labor, comfort, sexuality, and postpartum—each designed to awaken your body’s pleasure intelligence.
Orgasmic Birth Documentary & Ebook
Immerse yourself in stories of pleasure, power, and possibility.
Exclusive Pleasure Practices
Guided by Debra and world-renowned experts, including movement, breath, touch, and erotic embodiment exercises.
12 Months of Virtual Doula
Support Personalized guidance to keep you feeling supported.
Private Pleasure Community
Connect, share, and celebrate with other pleasure-seeking parents.
Lifetime Access
Learn at your own pace, revisit your favorite practices, and savor the journey.
praise
“In a world so full of fearful and often conflicting information, the course felt like a cozy blanket to wrap into and soak up the peace and knowingness that deeper wisdom is at work when it comes to this magical transformation we go through as women and as families. An abundance of topics was presented in a truly holistic way that sparked our curiosity and excitement. The course was by far the best investment we made in our preparation of the birth of our first baby, as it left us not only informed but inspired, empowered and open to all possibilities.”
– Asta
what you'll experience
MODULE 1
Glowing & Growing
Celebrate pregnancy as a sensual, joyful journey.
Use movement, positions, and words for comfort and pleasure.
Find inspiration in stories, resources, and empowering practices.
MODULE 2
The Dance of Labor
Flow into birth with confidence, rhythm, and joyful anticipation.
Use movement, ambiance, and body awareness to enhance comfort and pleasure.
Trust your instincts, supported by stories, resources, and empowering practices.
MODULE 3
Wisdom of Birth
Embrace birth as a powerful, pleasure-filled transformation.
Let inspiring stories awaken your confidence, joy, and sensual connection.
Surround yourself with resources that honor bliss and empowerment in every moment.
MODULE 4
Comfort in Stage 1
Step into labor’s first stage with openness, confidence, and joy.
Use comfort tools, touch, and movement to enhance pleasure and ease.
Welcome loving support and resources that nurture power, presence, and bliss.
MODULE 5
Comfort in the 2nd Stage
Flow through pushing with comfort, confidence, and ease.
Harness power and pleasure with tools that support your body’s rhythm.
Draw on resources that inspire empowerment and joyful birthing.
MODULE 6
Sexuality & Sensuality
Awaken your sensual power and embrace birth as a sacred, pleasure-filled experience.
Explore intimacy, creativity, and the science of sexuality in pregnancy and birth.
Use empowering tools and stories to merge passion, power, and joyful creation.
what's included
Instant access to the acclaimed “Orgasmic Birth” documentary.
eBook: Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth Experience.
Exclusive workbooks from Debra and world-renowned experts.
Private video library with Debra and leading birth visionaries.
Orgasmic Birth Virtual Conference—16+ hours of wisdom from Dr. Aviva Romm, Latham Thomas, Tami Lynn Kent, and more.
12 months unlimited email Doula support from the Orgasmic Birth Team.
Private community of expectant families and birthworkers—share, connect, and grow together
Lifetime access to all resources—learn at your pace, on any device
Bring your partner—no extra cost
praise
“Debra helped me navigate through the lengthy medical choices, jargon, and thoughts that brought up all my fear, and we turned it into excitement and magic. We’re not designed to do it alone, and with Debra’s presence, I was so prepped, ready, and grounded in who I am. I had a very difficult choice to make (baby’s head was not going the ‘right way’) and Debra helped me move through it MIRACULOUSLY so I birthed naturally and with a breech orgasmic birth! Our orgasmic breech birth was the best thing in the world, a tribute to this work, and to life. She is AMAZING, she’s the birth coach of your dreams. Her approach is real, based on science, and works if you want an orgasmic birth like I had!”
-Dr. Amanda Noelle
“I cleared fears I didn’t even know I had. Now I feel sexy, confident, and ready for anything birth brings. This course is a game-changer.”
-Kay Wesley
meet your Guide
DEBRA PASCALI-BONARO, LCCE, BDT/PDT(DONA)
For over 30 years, Debra has been a global leader in childbirth education, doula support, and the movement to reclaim birth as a pleasurable, powerful experience.
As chair of the International MotherBaby Childbirth Organization and co-chair of the International Childbirth Initiative, she’s on a mission to end unnecessary pain and fear in birth—and to restore pleasure, dignity, and joy.
Debra’s own birth story—shared inside the course—is a testament to the transformative power of education, trust, and pleasure.
She’s here to guide you, cheer you on, and remind you: You were made for this.
featured in
“It’s every woman’s human right to have a pleasurable birth.”
-Debra
praise
“This course is a must for first time mothers! It taught me so much, from such an open minded perspective that I wouldn’t have gotten from just reading books or attending workshops.
The ‘Pleasurable Birth Essentials’ course is not just a bunch of facts or information about birth… but it’s an experience delivered via videos, stories, and downloads. This helps us absorb the material, so that when you’re in labor you can tap back into the program.
Birth is an “in your body” experience as opposed to being a logical “in your head” thing, and I feel like this course really helps to ground women into their bodies and birth experience, gently over time.
Each week was like getting a new understanding of what birth is really about, and how to work with your body’s natural cues rather than against them. Thanks to this course, I was able to give birth to our beautiful baby girl in the comfort of our home with an amazing team of midwives and my husband.
My contractions were very gentle (so much that I didn’t realize I was having them!) and once active labor started, I was able to ride the waves and trust that my body knew how to bring this baby out.
I truly believe that my quick 3-hour active labor was thanks to the relaxed and private environment, and to the attitudes that I learned from Debra and this course. Thanks so much for creating such a comprehensive and effective resource for moms-to-be!”
– Nathalie Lussier, Founder of Ambition Ally
you're not just preparing for birth
you're preparing to awaken
to trust your body.
to honor your pleasure.
to birth with power - and with joy.
Essentials Bundle
- NEW BONUS! Pleasurable Birth Options Mini Course
- Instant Access to our acclaimed documentary, Orgasmic Birth
- eBook: Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying and Pleasurable Birth Experience
- Exclusive workbooks from Debra and world-renowned experts (Spinning Babies, Dr. Sarah Buckley, Carrie Contey, PhD, and more)
- Private video library with Debra and leading birth visionaries
- Orgasmic Birth Virtual Conference—16+ hours of wisdom from Dr. Aviva Romm, Latham Thomas, Tami Lynn Kent, and more
- 12 months unlimited email Doula support from the Orgasmic Birth Team
- Private community of expectant families and birthworkers—share, connect, and grow together
- Lifetime access to all resources—learn at your pace, on any device
- Bring your partner—no extra cost
Coaching Bundle
- Everything included in our Essentials Bundle plus
- 1 hour of one on one private Coaching Call with Orgasmic Birth Creatrix, Debra Pascali-Bonaro
- Recording of your live coaching call
VIP Bundle
- Everything included in our essentials bundle plus
- Three Hours of one on one private Coaching Call with Orgasmic Birth Creatrix, Debra Pascali-Bonaro
- Recording of your live coaching calls
Our pleasurable Guarantee
We believe birth can—and should—be safe, satisfying, and soul-stirring.
If you’re ready to explore the full spectrum of what’s possible, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.
Knowledge is power. Pleasure is your birthright.
FAQs
- How do I access the course?
Instant online access—watch, read, and connect anytime, anywhere. - How long does it take?
Move at your own pace. Most mamas complete the core content in 4–6 weeks. - How long do I have access?
Lifetime—come back anytime, for any birth. - Do you offer refunds?
Yes, we stand by our course. If it’s not right for you, we’ll refund you. - Do you offer scholarships?
We offer BIPOC scholarships to ensure access for all. Email us to apply.
Connect With Us
Questions? Want to share your story?
Reach out debra@orgasmicbirth.com